2007年2月14日 星期三

Mini Mark

We paid a visit to Dad's office on Valentine's day for the event of "Bring Kids to Work"

Little Lori was quickly recognized by Mark's colleague --Beatrice at the first sight in the entrance of building! I was so surprised and feel happy about it! After all, "Like Father, Like Son" Lori resembles Mark at almost 100% in apperance.



Lori looks so calm up in the photo, he is always so cool while in a unfamiliar environment~

Mark looks so happy while seeing his beloved one~





Above is the vedio cap recording Lori is fun playing balloon at the reception area~

Lots of kid participated in this event, Lori prefers to play alone~
Look how happy he was~


2007年2月8日 星期四

我..抓狂的媽媽

我..抓狂了~

在讀了柯志恩博士的 "那個媽媽不抓狂"之後
在連續上了
1. 2/2 人際溝通與談判
2. Ivy Chuang 老師的2/7 嬰幼兒心理動作發展簡介之後

我並沒有更有耐心地對待我家的那個不懂事的小小孩
不是他存心跟我作對
是我心智與情緒管理根本沒進步

哎呀~請待我娓娓道來~~


17:40~18:20 吃晚餐
18:20~18:50 說故事
19:00~19:40 刷牙
夠誇張吧~ 刷個牙要花將近一小時耶
好說歹說, 問他到底要不要刷牙, 刷完牙後我們就進房間去說 "Papa, Please get the moon for me"的故事; 他也是說要阿...可每次一轉身靠在我身上準備讓我刷牙時.他又一溜煙的轉向我.說"no..no.."
就這樣來來回回了不下2, 30次..
我就說, 那如果再不刷的話, 媽咪生氣囉~
樂樂說: "媽咪, 生氣喔, shh..." (生平第一次說出這話, 其實我是很開心的~; 可是, 可是..)
最後, 還是用強迫的方式幫樂樂刷完牙~
軟的不行, 硬的不吃; 這孩子真難搞定~  
19:50~20:40 喝ㄋㄟ ㄋㄟ, 原來準備睡覺了
結果, 樂樂拿了本 "Pig out"的書硬要我說..我索性就說起書來...講了一半...樂樂看了我, 親了一下....又..又..又逕自地把書給闔上..這孩子, 真不是一般地難伺候~
然後, 他ㄣㄣ了..所以, 我就趕快洗一洗他的屁屁..洗好後, 一不留神...就看到他在把玩尿布包, 還親了它一下; 洗完後的精神比起剛剛更亢奮了~~ 那好吧, 你睡不著, 我也犯不著不吃飯吧~
於是, 我們又回到客廳, 我繼續嗑完我那碗已被他吃剩一半的冷飯; 他老兄, 看我在吃飯, 也顧不得才喝完那250cc的奶, 又湊過來蠶食我的晚餐..."你真的是我的兒子嗎?" (心中OS)
這時, 我已經是半肚子的火; 心想, 那看樣子你是不會睡的, 我就順勢拿起一本書猛K; 樂樂咧..他也沒閑著, 他也是猛K書, 只是用牙齒啃..我...不...想...忍...了...
我大吼大叫...我看樂樂其實有被我嚇到了...可是我自己內心也一時難以平復; 所以對他, 我視而不見..."真是個超級爛的媽啊"
21:00 Mark 回家
21:10~21:45 三人都回房間, 我跟爹地假寐; 沒成功
21:50~22:30 終於是我跟mark 的吃晚飯時間; 這時我們暫時把樂樂監禁在小床, 讓他的活動空間所到最小~~
22:30~23:00 在爹地在忍不住的情況下, 大吼了一聲後; 樂樂終於累癱..睡著了~不過, 爹地還是比他早進入夢鄉; 了不起吧~ 兩個我愛的男人, 一個愛盧, 一個愛睡

我的這個夜晚, 過不既不平靜也不快樂~

2007年2月7日 星期三

玫瑰疹之後

哎喲~ 玫瑰疹才剛剛退
上週五, 寒流還沒走,
樂樂今年的第一道鼻涕也跟著來湊熱鬧

一直以來, 我對於任何反應在樂樂身上的病徵都是抱持著"不以為意"的態度
這次要不是, 爹地反常地(因為他一向比我更反對小病即就醫)
週六就直嚷嚷說要帶樂樂去看醫生 (因為當天樂樂的便便次數增多而且糞便偏稀)
再加上, 禮拜一的時候, 他一聲哈秋, 竟然噴出兩道黃鼻涕 **

只..只..只不過, 才流了兩天的鼻水, 怎麼會這麼快就有黃鼻涕啊,
然而伴隨而來的又是那一付喘不過氣來的猛咳聲...
我不鐵齒了
週一當晚, 我就幫樂樂掛了隔天早上, 台安醫院江裕群r的門診

週二當天, 我們一行三人一走到台安二樓門診區
樂樂就開始拉我們往回走~ 並且當場就哭了起來~
啊哈! 不知情的人還以為他可能太常生病而畏懼看醫生吧
其實, 這次也只不過是樂樂第3次給江醫生看診~
而且江醫生人還蠻和善的,
樂樂畏懼的應該是那個會抽鼻涕的器具吧,對於轟隆隆的聲音他超不愛的

醫生說, 黃鼻涕不嚴重, 喉嚨也沒發炎, 所以沒啥大事~
我特別請醫生不要開有含抗生素的藥...因為一吃含有抗生素的藥就沒完沒了的..非得吃完7~10療程不可
還不可隨便停藥...麻煩透了

就這樣, 大家 (爹地/朱媽媽/我)都安心了~
剩下的, 樂樂就請身體裡的小天使加油囉~~



** 鼻涕小常識 **
一般來說,透明的鼻涕常常是 "病毒" 感染初期的症狀,病毒感染有一定的病程,時間到了,正常的免疫力,常常一兩週之內,會自己好過來。如果是"黃綠黏稠"的鼻涕,越來越多,那通常代表有 "細菌" 感染了。細菌感染病程發展較快,如果失去控制,常常會有後續的併發症。

2007年2月4日 星期日

I love Hugging~

We went to a Park right next to 師大 this morning!
Mr. Sun was so Happy and so Generous today, so we are showered by his warm sunshine.

Lots of vendors were gathered in the park for the sake of Public welfare.
But, Lori and me weren't attracted by any of their 2nd hand items. We were more interested in the slides.

Lori was hesitated in the beginning since he was never seen crowds of people gathered in this park before; thus, he was staring at them seeing what were they doing in the first place. And then, he found some older kiddo who are around 2.5~4 year-old, so Lori approached them and tried to interacted with these kids. What surpised me the most was Lori opened his arm and attempted to hold some of them, and even pat on their backs. I was so happy Lori showed his was rather surprised on his deed since he was never so friendly before.

Ever since Lori attended the nursery in Jan, he is talkative and more eager to explore what's new to him. Overall, the advantages outperform the disadvantages, such like get coughs or running noses...